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When Your Partner Hides Purchases and Lies About Spending

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Discovering your partner is hiding purchases, lying about spending, or secretly shopping? Learn why financial deception destroys trust, how to confront it, and whether the relationship can recover. ⚠️ Important Relationship Advice Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered professional relationship counseling, therapy, or mental health advice. Relationship dynamics are highly individual and complex, involving unique personal histories, attachment patterns, mental health considerations, and interpersonal dynamics that require personalized professional guidance. The information provided here does not constitute professional counseling or therapy and should not be relied upon as a substitute for qualified mental health care. If you are experiencing relationship distress, mental health challenges, patterns of unhealthy relationships, or emotional difficulties, please consult with a licensed therapist, relationship counselor, ...

Be Happy and Positive, Negativity Has No Place!

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Though one could be infinitely happy by just enjoying the nature and family and all the human-made things, there are still millions of people who are unhappy.  In the developed countries there is very fortunate circumstance of having both God-given and man-made things.  Still majority of people there are unhappy.  In the developing countries, where for millions there is a real scarcity of even basic needs, people seem to be happy.  There are some people who are engaged in difficult tasks and in warfare, and even incarcerated in prisons, and are still happy!  We have just discussed the factors of happiness.  Millions of people have them, still they are unhappy.  There are millions of others who don’t have them, yet they are happy! You would realize that the mere availability and abundance of God given and human-made things is not enough.  There is something else which should be right to be happy.   Of course, it is our mind that must h...

20 Ways To Make Someone Smile

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Do you want to put a smile on someone's face today? Maybe make their day a little better. It won't cost you a single penny or much time to do just that. And because smiling is contagious, it probably won't just be one person you make smile today. Here are 20 ways to turn that frown upside down. 1.  Send some flowers to your partner at work. 2.  Compliment a friend or work colleague on their appearance. 3.  Donate something to charity. 4.  Take a friend out to lunch. 5.  Let someone know you miss them. 6.  Make a surprise telephone call to your partner at work, just to say hi. 7.  Hold a door open for someone walking behind you. 8.  Hug your partner for no reason. 9.  Leave a joke on a friends answer machine. 10. Send a card to a friend letting them know what a good friend they are. 11. Give up your seat on the train to someone when there aren't any left. 12. Share your umbrella on a rainy day. 13. Ask a friend if they need a...

Who Is Ms.~ Mr. Right Anyway?

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Of course you want to fall in love; But, like many singles -- you despair of finding that (right one). You may have some idea of your perfect man or woman -- he should be good-looking, rich, and powerful; She should be beautiful, sexy -- And smart. One of my good buddies who's a single guy and real estate investor -- Says (in restate you look for three things? Location, location, location). But, in the dating market -- a lot of women look for three things: Cash, cash, cash. In a culture where the free love of the 1970s has emerged into high commercialism, love has been reduced to the (BBD) -- meaning, Bigger Better Deal. But when it comes down to it -- the right person might just be the postman or the person who seemed quite plain at first; But who turns out to love sports, be a terrific cook or the best lover you ever had. Mystery of Attraction: In many ways attraction is a mystery; But there are some guidelines to help you understand the process. First, I'd like to int...

9 Quick Dating Tips Check List

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Looking at dating as a valuable learning experience. Dating gives you the opportunity to meet new people -- learn about yourself --And, if all goes well, experience love. To help you reach that success -- here are some quick tips to keep in mind below: 1. Meet as many people as you can. 2. Let people know you're available. 3. Decide on your (love criteria). 4. Don't be afraid of rejection. 5. Go places and see things that you enjoy. 6. Boost your self-esteem and mates will flock to you. 7. Remember that you have the power to get what you want. 8. Always have hope (you can meet someone special anytime and anywhere. 9. Be ready and open for love. Resources: The Best Dating and Romance eBook Review Sites Online - Click here Obsession Phrases Dating Secrets" Say These Words and Make any Man Want to Love You!" Click here "300 Creative Dates" - The Worlds Most Romantic, Unique And Fun Dating Ideas - For Singles Or Married Couples. Clic...

"Q & A" Letters from Blog Readers: Advice on Love and Relationships

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Question: He married another woman, but really loves me; How long do I wait? I have a strange relationship with a guy I met in 2015. He was living with a woman and they have a child. This guy and I went everywhere and did everything together. We kept no secrets. Well, he turned around and married the woman he lived with, but he didn't tell me. The day before he married her, he told me that he loved me. After he got married, I decided to leave him alone and move on with my life, but I could not really let go. He still calls and says he loves me. He has never disrespected me and treats me as if I'm the only one who exists in his world. He says I'm his only true love. His mother tells me to just stand by his side. But how long do I have to wait? New York Answer: Exactly what are you waiting for? He made his decision when he married the other woman. Stop listening to him and his mother. Stop being a fool. He has disrespected you, and you are disrespecting yourself. As...

The Dating Dilemma Continues: Who Should Pick Up the Check?

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In today's dating game, couples carefully plan everything they'll do on a first date to make it memorable occasion; But they never talk about the one thing that could derail the whole night into disaster -- who's going to pay the bill? Most traditional thinking people assume the man should cover the cost whether the woman asks him out or not -- whether she makes more than he does or not. But, as society changes with more and more women bringing home bigger paychecks than the men they date -- the rules are bending, creating some high tension between the sexes and making it difficult to determine who should pay. This has become a real dilemma for men and women alike, all looking for answers to who should pick up the check. According to majority of relationship counselor's state that "A woman paying for dates is a new development that didn't happen back in the days -- and wasn't expected." During that time -- men always paid, and that women should be...

Ten Biggest Mistakes Women Make In Relationships

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Jealousy, mistrust, apathy, selfishness, poor communication, abuse, irreconcilable differences -- the reasons relationships fail are many -- And all too often the remedies for an ailing romance are few. While no sure-fire solution exists to guarantee that you and yours will make it last forever, relationship experts say that your chances at finding lasting romance are good if you avoid the "Ten Biggest Mistakes Women Make In Relationships". The Top Ten Mistakes Are: 1. Looking for Love in All the Wrong Faces. Sometimes women can get so hung up over what a man has -- and what he dosen't have -- that they often miss out on a wonderful relationship. Women don't have their priorities straight on their good man wish list -- they tend to lead-off with superficial characteristics, which they think a man should have, like; a gorgeous face and body of a "God" -- and in the process eliminate the all right looking men who -- if you gave them half a chance, could...