How to Save a Marriage or Relationship From Catastrophe...

When I first stepped into the realm of therapy, I had a romanticized vision of couples counseling. I pictured it as a miraculous elixir to heal all wounds within relationships. However, through both personal experiences and observations, I've come to a different conclusion: couples therapy often misses the mark, leaving many to wonder if it’s worth their time. In this post, we'll dive into the details behind why it might not work as well as advertised. The Flawed Foundation of Couples Therapy When we think about couples therapy, we often picture a therapist sitting with two people, guiding them through their issues. But have you ever considered who the real client is? In many cases, the couple is seen as the client, not the individuals . This fundamental perspective shapes the entire therapeutic process. Prioritizing the Relationship Therapist...