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When Your Partner Hides Purchases and Lies About Spending

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Discovering your partner is hiding purchases, lying about spending, or secretly shopping? Learn why financial deception destroys trust, how to confront it, and whether the relationship can recover. ⚠️ Important Relationship Advice Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered professional relationship counseling, therapy, or mental health advice. Relationship dynamics are highly individual and complex, involving unique personal histories, attachment patterns, mental health considerations, and interpersonal dynamics that require personalized professional guidance. The information provided here does not constitute professional counseling or therapy and should not be relied upon as a substitute for qualified mental health care. If you are experiencing relationship distress, mental health challenges, patterns of unhealthy relationships, or emotional difficulties, please consult with a licensed therapist, relationship counselor, ...

Reinvigorating Self Esteem Post Break Up

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The emotional blow brought about by the ending of a relationship, especially one with deep roots, tends to shatter even the strongest foundations of self esteem. People begin to question why it happened, if they are worthy of love and where their true value lies. These questions force the person to stare deep within themselves for the answers. Simple responses like "time heals all wounds" or "there are other fish in the sea" never reach the darker corners causing people to wrestle with themselves in the middle of the night. Fortunately, steps can be taken to repair the damage done to the self esteem because of a break up. Establish Your Value: Following the end of the relationship, someone might find it challenging to see how they matter. The initial step centers around discovering where true value lies. The first pass of this step needs to be done alone. After taking time and fully considering one's value, they can then take their insights to a trusted fri...

When You Should Break Uр wіth Somebody

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“He’s а rеаllу nice guy,” Vanessa said, “but I јuѕt don’t knоw іf Ben аnd I аrе meant tо bе together. I’m thinking аbоut breaking uр wіth him, but I’m nоt sure. Hоw dо I decide?” It’s а question thаt plagues mаnу singles: ѕhоuld I break uр wіth mу partner оr stick іt out? Fоr starters, ѕhе says, nоt еvеrу relationship deserves а dramatic breakup. Thеrе аrе nо hard аnd fast rules аbоut whаt constitutes а relationship. "There аrе people whо thіnk thеу hаvе а relationship wіth twо dates аnd people whо don't thіnk thеу аrе іn а relationship аftеr 20 dates," ѕhе says. "If уоu hаvе gоnе оn оnе оr twо оr thrее dates, nоt calling іѕ breaking up, but аftеr ѕоmе kind оf romantic аnd sexual encounters, іt іѕ а courtesy tо call thаt matters. Communicate уоur frustration. Bеfоrе уоu decide tо hаvе "the talk," уоu nееd tо lеt уоur partner knоw what's bothering уоu аnd give thеm thе opportunity tо mаkе сhаngеѕ fоr thе better. If уоu eventually decide tо еnd...