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Is this you; I found out my husband has had numerous affairs throughout our marriage. But when I confronted him and told him what I knew, he claims they meant nothing and that most men do it. He said it was just something that just happen and he never wanted to hurt me, I'll never do it again -- he treats me like a queen, but I'm worried that he will continue to cheat on me. Doesn't the above paragraph sounds familiar to you? It's the same script women have when they've been cheated on. In my opinion, I would call any man rather it be your boyfriend or husband behavior -- high risk, especially with all the sexually transmitted diseases going around. If he believes that (most men do it too), he may get caught up in this learned male-behavior pattern. Men escape serious social consequences in repeated affairs because 'Boys-Will-Be-Boys' attitude still prevails. Sex adventure sometimes becomes a sport for men, which is why it's often called scoring...

In most cases into the relationship, what I have discovered is -- We get irritable and bored when we spend a lot of time together; Does this mean we're incompatible? That's a Yes Or No question. You see, you have to look at what sparked your relationship at the beginning, to what caught your eye in that person which made you like/love the man or woman you wanted to marry or be boyfriend/girlfriend with - so, to speak. For example: If some how you both lost interest in one another or think you aren't compatible, you have to back track to the beginning to find out what happen along the way to what have made you lose interest in your mate -- be your own investigator! Men and women differ in their communication skills and area of interest. It is a fallacy to assume that not having the same interests mean the relationship is over or irreparably damaged by a long shot. Irritability and boredom between the two of you may be an indication that you're in a one-sided rela...

Remember when you first laid eyes on her or him? Remember the rush of passion you felt when you heard that special someone's voice on the phone, read their secret notes, or their careful crafted love letters, or watching them come through the door of your favorite restaurant? Well, a few months or even years have past since those first fiery passionate days. The two of you are comfortable in the relationship, still something is missing - it's that certain spark you felt when love first bloomed. But, listen to me clearly; There's no reason to stay stuck in a relationship rut . Here are my "Top 10 Sure-fire Ways to Improve Your Love Life" 1. Learn how to communicate with you mate: Communication is the key ingredient in any successful relationship. It is important for couples to talk about both the big and small things in their lives. It is equally important to listen to one another in a nonjudgmental supportive way. Sometimes all your partner needs is a sy...

It's happening all the time, it doesn't matter if you live in the big city or small town. A woman meets a man she thinks is 'Mr Right' she's desperately been seeking, or a man meets his - ideal woman and it's love at first sight. As weeks dissolve into months, she discover her dreamboat is more a nightmare, or he realize that the object of his affection is not all she appeared to be. In our fast pace world, it seems as though anything goes these days, it may be wise for both men/women to approach new relationships with a bit of caution. As I researched, both men and women - there is an abundance of seemingly good catches who on closer look, turn out to be Mr. Wrong or anything but Ms. Right. Yet, most people subconsciously overlook fatal flaws in their lovers - for their emotional bad habits prevent them from assessing people and situation accurately...and consequently from moving on to a healthy relationship. To help you distinguish between genuine jewel...

Learning how to win love back may be able to reignite a burned out relationship. Love is a truly fickle emotion that can burn out just as quickly and suddenly as it was originally ignited. When outside factors, such as money for example, create stress in a relationship that love is most at risk. Once relationship problems become an issue, love can quickly deteriorate with no resolution in sight. Here are some basic strategies that will show you how to win love back: 1.   Be Honest - Distrust is one of the leading causes of problems in a relationship . It is extremely important that you are honest with your partner on every possible level, even in situations where the truth is painful. This means that you need to be upfront with things that are bothering you, and you also need to be open about every day activities like finances and how you are doing at work. No one likes to feel like they constantly have to watch over their significant other, so if you want to learn how to win...

There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but most couples are able to fall in love and stay in love. However, there are also going to be times when even the happiest of couples hit a bump in the road. When these bumps become the norm, it's time to start watching for the signs of a toxic relationship. Before we get to those signs, it's important to define what we mean. A toxic relationship is more than just hitting a few bumps in the road, it's the type of relationship that starts to make either of you feel like a bad or inferior person. It's the kind of relationship that continually gets worse instead of better. Here are a few of the classic signs of a toxic relationship: 1. Your partner is emotionally, physically, or mentally abusive or manipulative. 2. You compromise your principles or make changes that go against your beliefs, just so your mate won't get mad. 3. Your partner tries to make you depend upon them for your basic needs. 4. The...

The internet is a phenomenon that spans across the entire globe. The number of people going online continues to grow, and that means there are a lot of opportunities to meet new people. Most of these connections remain friendly and platonic, but there are some that seem to go further. If your romantic partner has been communicating a lot with somebody, you may be wondering are online relationships cheating. How you define cheating will play the biggest part in how you ultimately answer that question. For example, some people would only consider it cheating if physical contact is made, while others would say emotional cheating also counts. There may be some gray areas, but your feelings should let you know whether you have been cheated on or not. If you catch your partner spending hours and hours chatting with the same person online, then it's only logical that you would be suspicious. How much you trust your partner will play a key role in how you respond. A partner that quickly...