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Why Are Older Women Dating Younger Men?

- December 02, 2011

There are a lot of unwritten rules about what's socially acceptable and what isn't. One of those rules dictates how close in age a dating couple should be, and gender also has a part in that rule. Most people don't bat an eyelid if an older man dates someone much younger, but why are older women dating younger men seems to put those same people in a state of shock. Why it's okay for one arrangement and not the other is the source of much debate. Perhaps it has something to do with the perception of power; maybe a younger woman is looking for the security that an older man can provide (after all, men do take longer to mature); or maybe it's because that's just the way it's always been. The reason for bringing this up is that older women dating younger men will often run into funny looks and hushed comments when they are out on a date. That shouldn't stop you from dating someone that you care about, but it is good to be aware that such a reaction can an...

How Can A Senior Meet A New Love

- December 01, 2011

Statistics show that the population is getting older and older. However, people aren't aging the way they used to. It wasn't all that long ago that people would retire and make their way to the old folk's home; in other words, they acted old. Today's seniors are healthier and more active than ever, and that includes their romantic lives as well. The question of how can a senior meet a new love is more common than ever. If you are interested in this topic, then chances are that you have had some life changes that caused you to lose a partner. It can be difficult to date when the memory of them is so strong. Therefore, one of the first steps to meeting a new love is to give yourself permission to do so and to let go of any guilt you are feeling about it. You can move on with your life without forgetting about your previous partner. It often seems as though the single's scene is the realm of the young. Sure, you can always go out to the dance clubs late at night and...

5 Signs That Tells You Your Marriage Is In Trouble

- November 23, 2011

A lot of people rush into marriage at a young age when they feel they are madly in love. The problem with this is that as they age and mature, their personality may change and they might end up not being as in love as they thought. Or worse, the person they fell in love with may not turn out to be the person they expected. The fact that so many people rush into marriage is also why so many people rush into divorce. It is said that the divorce rate in America is upwards of 50-60%. Such a high divorce rate is simply because people do not take their marriage seriously from the start. Divorce is not always the option, as a lot of marriages can be saved if both parties are willing to put in the effort. But how do you determine whether or not your marriage in trouble? There are five signs that your marriage may not be as good as it should be. 1. Detached. If either you or your spouse seem emotionally detached from the relationship. If they simply do not seem to care about what goes on in ...

Playing Marriage Games

- November 23, 2011

Any relationship can take a lot of work to make it successful. Relationships are not something you can just let sit idle and expect them to work right. If you do not put in the time and effort, it will fall through. This can be made even more difficult when dealing with a long distance marriage. Long distance marriages can require even more work than normal relationships as you and your spouse are separate from one another. These types of relationships can put a lot of strain on your marriage which can make them difficult to deal with. This is why it is important to find ways to make them work, from simple communication to playing marriage games to keep yourselves happy. However even with that you may be left wondering what exactly you can do to make it work. You still love each other despite the distance, so you do not want to let that come between you. To this end there are few tips you can follow that can help you overcome this distance hurdle. 1. Establish a clear line of commu...

- November 17, 2011

CLICK HERE While doing my normal research, I was looking for new ideas for my readers and I came across this guide for women by accident. It's called 'Check Him Out' at first I thought it was just another guide for singles who were looking to date. Since I had a little free time, I checked out their website - it wasn't sexy...as a matter of fact the website was sort of plain at best. But the information contained in it was valuable. Here's an example: Ladies! Never date a stranger unless you've checked him out first! Fortunately, a basic background check is an easy thing to do, via the telephone and the Internet. In just a matter of minutes, you can find out a great deal on your own about any potential date (or even your fiance' or husband) using the simple, free background check techniques described in our new "how-to" manual. My final thoughts: Get a copy of this guide 'Check Him Out' it's worth it's weight in gold...

After the Divorce And No Friends

- October 31, 2011

We all know a divorce is a very painful and frustrating process with a lot of pitfalls to overcome. You will find yourself losing quite a bit in your divorce as your spouse seems to take it all, especially in a nasty divorce. They take your money, your house, they even end up taking the kids leaving you with next to nothing. But the worst loss of all is when you lose your friends. For whatever reason when you get divorced your friends might start avoiding you and cut off ties all together. After the divorce and no friends is exceptionally painful and just makes an already terrible situation even worse. There can be a variety of reasons for why your friends suddenly disappear once you get divorced. Their marriage could be at risk and seeing you get divorced might scare them. People are afraid to face a harsh reality and would rather ignore it all, as they say, ignorance is bliss. So seeing you get divorced is just a glaring reminder of their own problems and it makes them think a...

First Year Anniversary Gifts; What Should I Give?

- October 28, 2011

When it comes to choosing first year anniversary gifts you can go the traditional or the non traditional route, the choice is yours. The traditional one year anniversary gift is something made of paper. The non traditional one year anniversary gift is a clock or other time piece. Of course, these traditional and non traditional first year anniversary gifts are just suggestions. Not only do you not have to take them literally, you don't have to follow them at all. But, if nothing else, using these traditional and non traditional gift ideas may provide you with a good starting point in your gift giving hunt. The most important thing to always keep in mind is that you want the happy couple to really get a lot out of whatever gift you choose. It's important to consider the tastes of the two people who will be receiving the gift. If the couple is very conservative or a little more "out there" keep that in mind when choosing a gift. Another tip is to remember...

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