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Short Comments from Real Couples In Seroius Relationship | Never Judge A Book by It's Cover (First Impressions)...

1. SHE WAS A CIGARETTE SMOKER.

" Very first policy of knowing me is: I DESPISE smoking cigarettes. Can't stand the smell of cigarettes, cannot stand the view of them, think that any individual that smokes is an idiot that deserves cancer cells, and also I detest the tobacco firms with every fiber of my being. So it was simply my good luck to fall in love first-sight with a beautiful blonde girl with a mouth like a truck driver and that smoked like a smokeshaft. I would certainly look at her beautiful face and also think, 'Yeah, but she smokes.' She 'd says the funniest thing ever and also I 'd believe, 'OK, but she smokes.' And then she kissed me and I thought, 'Well, then, I really don't care if she smokes.'".

-- Chris, 27.

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2. HE'S 'TALL' IN WHERE IT MATTERS.

" We were set up by my buddy on an arranged date. The first time I laid eyes on him I assumed he was cute, but I had this deep internal sigh of misery when I saw that he was about 2 inches much shorter than me. I realize that sounds superficial, yet the majority of ladies don't want a partner that's much shorter than they are. The only males that should be shorter than you -- are your grandpa and your sons. However I ought to have understood there's a massive distinction in between elevation and also size! His size more than offseted his elevation." (you know what I mean). :)

-- Mitzi, 26.


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3. IT TOOK ME A WHILE TO FORGIVE HER PHONY TAN.

" I'm from the East Coastline, where the majority of us do not truly care if we obtain pasty as bagel dough during the winter as well as perhaps squeeze out a couple of feeble sunburns throughout the summer. So when I met the lady that is currently my spouse, it took me a bit of gettinging used to her Jersey Shore style sense. She would bake her skin like rotisserie hen at the regional tanning salon all winter long, and also she would wear this copper-colored lipstick as well as these insanely lengthy blinged-out fingernails, yet with my determination I came to know this woman who's as strong as a Mafia wife and who defends our two children like a goddamned mom wolverine. She could look a fake as she desires on the outside, because on the within, she's actual real to the bone.".

-- Dion, 29.

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4. HARSH OUTSIDE, SOFT ON THE INSIDE.

" OK, so she was covered from head to with all kids of tattoos, she had a lip piercing as well as a nose piercing, she definitely had no filter about speaking her mind in one of the most visuals and uneasy way possible, and also she asked if she can see my penis -- about 15 minutes right into our very first day-- while we were at a restaurant. I mean, they say do not judge a book by its cover, yet if she were a magazine, she would certainly be wrapped in brown paper in the back of a (adult xxx bookstore). However as the hours and also nights as well as weeks... as well as months-- And now currently three years-- unravelled, I came to know the most real, caring, understanding, valuable, credible individual I have actually ever before enjoyed. It truly taught me to never ever judge anyone by the way look.".

-- Todd, 28.


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5. HE'S SUPERFICIAL AND DEEP AT THE EXACT SAME TIME.

" I was instantly drawn into him due to the fact that he's simply attractive as heck, but because he was hot, I presumed he was as dumb as a tree stump. Typically men are either smart or hot, and seldom do you get both wrapped up in the exact same lovely slab of meat. However after our first month-long 'sex coma' diminished as well as we got to know one another, I understood that not only is he clever as hell, he's really very smart way beyond his years. I hit the Lotto with this man-- he's a male bimbo that's deep! Superficial and deep-- he covers the waterfront. Stay away, ladies, because I wiil attack you!"

-- Jazzie, 28

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6. SHE'S MUCH LESS OBNOXIOUS THAN SHE APPEARED IN THE BEGINNING.

" We've been together for three years and also we're going to get married in the spring or 2018 despite the fact that when I met her-- I despised her guts and also believed she was a ridiculous clown. I think part of the issue is that I'm more of an introvert, as well as just what I initially saw as simply some loudmouthed scenester party girl was really a woman with incredible social intelligence who understood precisely ways to charm and also work people to get just what she wants from them. This would certainly prove to be a valuable possession in a companion, because I'm totally clueless when it comes to dealing with individuals. With my brains as well as her capability to hustle, we're unbeatable."

-- James, 26

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7. AT FIRST I COULDN'T GET OVER HER VOICE.

" I met her online, and the very first thing you see are the images, and also wow, yep, no question, she was Angelina Jolie-level (lovely). We traded a few messages prior to exchanging phone numbers, when I initially spoke with her over the phone, she had this crackly white-girl mall-rat voice that made her sound so dumb, it immediately dashed all my hopes of us ever connecting, a lot less getting into a serious relationship. Her voice was so bad, I feared it may kill my erection if she attempted to open her mouth doing sex. Once we began talking, I realized she was not just my intellectual equivalent, she could even be my superior. She's so clever, she even understands the best ways to use her dumb-sounding voice to her benefit."

-- Jimmy, 32

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8. WE HAD OUR FIRST AND ALSO ONLY DISAGREEMENT THE EVENING WE MET.

" Oh, my God, speak about starting off on the wrong foot-- I met my boyfriend at a club where he was working the door, taking in the money and also working as a club bouncer. I confess I was a little sloshed when I walked up as well as presented myself and he kind of mumbled something back, and after that I yelled at him and stomped away since I assumed he was acting discourteous. Turns out he's only reluctant, and also a girlfriend told me a couple of days later on that he had a crush on me for months! He forgave me for being a full blown bitch to him, and I have never again been a total bitch to him once I got to know him. Okay I lied, I could be a partial bitch sometimes, however I'm never ever a full blown one any longer, at the very least not to him."

-- Ann, 31

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9. WE DISAGREED ON NATIONAL POLITICS.

" We are very different on national politics, which I figured would certainly be a deal breaker right out that gate! However he had a nuanced view about points that in fact opened my mind a little wider. I assumed he was simply some dumb member of the opposing 'group,' however he made me recognize there are more than 2 methods of checking out any given problem. Currently the only 'team' that matters is me and also him."

-- Denise, 22

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10. ONCE a CHEATER ALWAYS ONE?, AS I THOUGHT.

" I had the misfortune of getting my 'impression' even before I met -- he has a track record in our social circle as a little bit of a player. A sweetheart, absolutely, and the kind of person that ladies simply toss themselves at, however someone that would certainly damage your heart in a minute just because he got tired or caught the aroma of some brand-new lady in the area. So when he asked me to be his 'Lady', I said yes, however I didn't tell him it would take me a long time to trust him. So I waited three months ... six months ... a year ... and currently it's 2 years, --And he hasn't given me one single sign that he betrayed me. He hasn't said one mean thing to me, and we never argue. Sometimes when you offer people a 2nd chance they treat you like a sucker; other times they prove themselves completely ethical."

-- Mary, 28

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11. I THOUGHT SHE WAS WAY TOO YOUNG FOR ME.

" My impression was, 'Wow, she's wise and amusing as well as hot -- And I can not believe she really likes me, yet she's a dozen years younger than I am --and also this is going to make me appear like a pervert.' Yet I dove in anyhow because the advantages plainly exceeded the small trouble of some individuals-- mostly envious guys and lonesome women-- believing I'm a pervert. Three years later, this pervert is engaged to her."

-- Bobby, 34

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