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Love Relationship Are You My Soul Mate Or Not

A true love relationship is rare. Finding your soul mate is a wonderful thing to experience. Most of us do not find "the one" to spend the rest of our lives with. So we make do with someone who is close enough.

If you are lucky enough to find your very special someone then make sure you know how to hang on to them. With so many marriages ending in failure if you do not hold on with both hands you may just be giving up the best thing that has ever, or will ever, happen to you.

One of the best things the two of you can do is talk to each other. Face to face, on the phone, even texting and emailing these days are acceptable forms of communication. When you take the time to talk make sure that you will have very few distractions. Talking on the phone during the evening hours is a great time because you are more relaxed and typically distractions are minimal. Talk about anything that comes to mind. Tell stories and just get to know each other.

Obviously, if you have just met you will want to go out on dates together. Pay attention to the types of things that they like to eat. You can gain a wealth of knowledge about someone by what they order in a restaurant. Make mental notes of special things and learn how to cook them.

Take things slowly. There really is no rush when starting a love relationship. If you know that this person is the one for you then trust that everything will work out the way it is supposed to. Even soul mates can rush into things and screw them up. Take your time and really get to know each other. The rest of your lives is a long time.

If you really want to make a connection, touch each other. Touching helps create a strong bond between you and shows that you care. Don't touch too soon though, that can be creepy. You do not want to scare anyone away so make sure that when you start touching it will be accepted as the beginnings of the trust you will share between you. If another person allows you to touch them then that means they trust you.

Trust is key in any relationship. Being intimate does not just mean having sex. Intimacy starts with touching. Holding hands, walking arm in arm, touching their shoulder as you pass by, all of this and much more is also considered being intimate with your partner. Touch is a wonderful way to communicate your feelings for the other person.

As the relationship deepens ask to see photo albums of when they were younger. Find a comfortable spot, maybe in front of the fireplace, pour each of you a glass of wine and just relax and have fun. If you both bring a photo album then you can see into each others past together creating an even deeper bond to your love relationship. Then, make plans to meet the parents.

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