How to Save a Marriage or Relationship From Catastrophe...

The closer you are to someone, the more likely you are to step on their toes. And being married to someone certainly puts you in close quarters. So the chances are good that you and your spouse have sore feet. Okay, that was my best joke of today. The point is that it's NORMAL for you and your spouse to get in each others way and for those "misses" to cause hurt...sometimes serious hurt. Did your spouse hurt you? Have you made mistakes that hurt your spouse ? Except in the case of physical abuse, you can "move on" from anything. In fact, your marriage can end up even BETTER! I know...you're probably thinking, "Better? How could it be better than before we screwed up?" It CAN be better, but you have to do one thing first. You have to forgive . What does it REALLY mean to forgive? Many people will say, " I forgive you ," but continue to harbor anger in their heart. Some people say the words, but it's obvious from their act...

There is nothing wrong with fixing a broken relationship , but some ways of doing so are better than others. We'll take a look at what you can do, and what you should avoid, to patch things up. Salvaging your current relationship, or getting back together will require a lot of effort. No matter what Hollywood likes to tell you, long-lasting relationships don't magically happen. Before you even begin you have to ask yourself why you want it to be fixed? if you are doing it because you know "it will be different this time", then it may be a good idea to re-think your position Many couples split because of one thing: distrust. Fixing a broken relationship requires honesty from this point forward. You have to be honest about who you are, who your mate is and what being together means to you. One point related to honesty is that you can't change other people. You can change yourself, but don't fool yourself thinking things will be better after you change your ...

For most of us, getting over your first love can seem impossible. It's hard to believe that we can ever really be happy again or that we will ever find someone who 'gets' us the same way our love did. The truth is, no matter how hard it is to believe right now, that as humans we are capable of loving many people. We can love very deeply and while we won't love each person in exactly the same way, we can have more than one 'true love' in our lifetimes. The most important thing you need to do is get yourself in a position where you will be able to love again, and that will take some time. Here are the best steps for making a clean break so that you can move on and find love at some point: 1. You have to face the fact that your relationship is over. This is unbelievably hard to do. You thought the two of you would be together forever and you can't imagine that it could really be over. You have to face the fact that it is over and cut off all commu...

Dont Be Blindsided. Look for warning signs of a break-up . As much as you may want this relationship to work, you might be seeing some warning signs of a break-up looming in the shadows. You might be able to save it and at the worst you might just be prepared for it if you start looking for the signs and know what to look for. There are many things that may be indicating that a break up is right around the corner. One thing that you might find yourself doing is walking on eggshells. If there has been any change or added tension in the air and you feel like you have to tread carefully with every word you say or action you take, then things might be getting bad. It may even be that they are starting to get easily angered and will blow up with the slightest provocation. Be sure that you don't stick around if it at all turns violent. If you seem to notice an increase in the amount of criticisms coming your way that may also be a sign. Where there used to be nothing but praise, n...

When it comes to relationship advice , you have to be careful which you follow and which you ignore. Most everyone will have an opinion about the best way to go about getting back together with your ex, but not all those opinions are things you should do. In many cases, the advice you get can actually cause more harm than good and will encourage you to be manipulative and childish. Here is some relationship advice that can help you get your ex girlfriend/boy friend back in 5 easy steps - healthy relationship advice. In other words; good relationship advice. Here are five easy steps that can help you reconcile with your girlfriend/boy friend in no time at all: 1. Take a look at your past mistakes, the ones that directly impacted your relationship as well as those that didn't (or at least you don't think they did). Pick a few of your personality traits that you feel you should work on and improve. Make a total commitment to investing time and effort into changing those...

No one is perfect, we all make mistakes, and some are worse than others. One of the worst mistakes you can make, and the one that does an unimaginable amount of harm, is that of infidelity . When you cheat on someone whether it's your wife or your girlfriend, you are proving to everyone involved that you are selfish and childish. The only way to make things right is to end the relationship and give 100% to your wife or girlfriend, the one who you promised you would be faithful to. The problem is, the other woman might genuinely care for you and you will hurt her too, so be careful how you go about getting rid of the other woman. The first thing you have to do is talk to her. If you've been lying to her and she didn't even know you were married or in another relationship, you've really screwed up. You will most likely cause her a lot of pain but you have to break the cycle of lying and cheating . Just be as gentle as possible, but let her know in no uncertain terms...

9:15 AM - Office meeting 1:30 PM - Sales presentation 6:00 PM - Break up with my significant other Let's face it, for most of us, that kind of schedule looks pretty funny. While we may not schedule a break up that way, there are times when something needs to be done, and somebody needs to make the first move. A lot of relationships last much longer than they probably should for no other reason than breaking up isn't an easy thing to do. Relationships typically end in a few basic ways. There is the dramatic break up . This type can be very sudden and usually involves strong words or actions. There is the mutual break up where both parties come to the realization that it's over, and do so at the same time. It's almost as if it happens by magic. It's also the most rare. Finally, there is the slow break up . This is characterized by things degrading over time. The sad thing is that neither party may even know they are headed for a break up until it's far too...