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How To Be A Better Girlfriend Before Danger Creeps In

How to be a better girlfriend is something us women ask a lot. When you initially get together it is easy to keep the spark alive. You have so much to explore and learn about each other and the sexual attraction should also be very strong. But when you have been together for a while, the initial lust factor has probably reduced somewhat and you know as much as there is to know. Life can get a little mundane and this is when danger can creep in. Most relationships break up due to lack of communication rather than a major problem like having an affair.

So you start wondering how to be a better girlfriend? Perhaps there are some good books you could read to help you spice up your love life. Or, if it is your thing, why not surprise him with a movie? You could make your own but don't go overboard as these things have a habit of reappearing when you least want them to. Just ask Paris Hilton!

Becoming a better lover is something we tend to leave to the men to worry about but it is a two way street. And for such a little word, sex can cause major problems for any couple. But it is not just about sex. There is an urban myth going around which seems to suggest that men don't do affection. While they may not do public displays, most love being cuddled or caressed in the comfort of their own homes.

Men like to be appreciated too. So why not think up a couple of things you could do for him. For example, you could try getting him seats to a game for him and a mate if it is not your thing. Not only are you telling him that you want him to enjoy himself but you also trust him to go out without you and have a great time. This is important as often men can feel trapped without us women realizing it. While we want to spend every minute with the man we love, often they couldn't imagine anything worse. It is not that they don't appreciate us but sometimes men need some space. Give him lots of this and he will happily nominate you for girlfriend of the year award.

Men also like their women to be respectful especially when around other men. Now don't get me wrong, I am not suggesting for a second that you head back to the 50's and have his pipe and slippers ready and waiting. What I mean is that they don't like their partner to put them down when their friends are around, or to acted-up and unladylike. It is never attractive when a woman acts like a construction worker but it is even worse when you do so in front of an audience.

So stop wondering how to be a better girlfriend and go apply these tips. If you are still concerned it would be worth investing in some additional relationship coaching to make sure you keep yours in tip top condition.

P.S. This tips are not just for single people or couples living together, these tips can be use for married couples too!

This article was written by my wife,

Denise Walker-Clark

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