Intimacy for Husbands: How to Strengthen Your Marriage

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  A lot of couples lose their spark because of a pattern called pursuer-distancer. Dr. Sue Johnson calls this the "Protest Polka," a cycle of demands and withdrawal that hurts marriages. Without emotional intimacy , couples can grow apart. This disconnection is bad for their relationship. It's key to work on intimacy for a strong marriage. Key Takeaways Understanding the pursuer-distancer pattern can help couples address intimacy issues. Emotional intimacy is vital for a strong and healthy marriage. Recognizing the signs of a lack of intimacy can help couples take proactive steps. Building intimacy requires effort and commitment from both partners. A strong emotional connection can lead to a more fulfilling relationship. The Multifaceted Nature of Marital Intimacy Understanding the many sides of marital intimacy is key to a strong, lasting bond. It's not just one thing; it's a mix of aspects that build a deep connection between partners. Physical, Emotional, and ...

Why Men Leave Relationships


If you are a women who is struggling to keep your relationship intact and you want to know why men leave relationships, this is the article for you.  As humans, we have the tendency to make things more complicated than they have to be.  This is compounded by some misconceptions that are strongly rooted in our society.

Many people have heard the saying: "Men use love to get sex and women use sex to get love".  The problem is that doesn't have to be the way it is.  While there might be some truth to that it just perpetuates a common flaw in our way of thinking - that men want and need sex more than women and that sex is all men need to be happy.

That's simply not true.  For the most part men and women have similar sex drives but our society, and really throughout history, men have been encouraged to 'sow their wild oats' and women have been told they have to be 'good girls'.  So men are used to giving in to their desires and women are used to putting their desires on hold.

No wonder relationships seem like such a challenge! Half the population doesn't feel like they have any control over their urges and the other half feels like their urges are wrong!

For anyone who wants a stable loving relationship you will need to re-think many of the concepts you were brought up to believe.  The truth is that anyone, men or women, will leave unfulfilled relationships and all but the most shallow people want to be fulfilled in many ways not just sexually.

In order to really have a loving long term relationship you need to have connections - physical, spiritual, and emotional.  These are necessary for the success of any long term relationship.  All people want to feel like they are accepted, understood, desired, and loved by their partners. 

When one or more of these needs aren't met the relationship will start to fall apart.  For any women who wants to know why men leave relationships so they can prevent it from happening to them, just remember to connect with your man on all of these levels, and both of you will be happy, fulfilled, and committed to the relationship forever.

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