Reframing Boundaries in Relationships: A New Perspective
When I first heard the term ' boundaries ' in the context of marriage, my immediate thought was one of walls and distance. But, after over a decade of partnership, I've come to understand that boundaries can mean something quite different. Let me take you on a journey through my experiences and lessons learned about safeguarding relationships, not separating them. Rethinking Boundaries in Marriage When we think about boundaries in marriage, what comes to mind? Often, the term evokes a sense of separation. But is that really what we want in our relationships? I believe we need to rethink the traditional meaning of boundaries. Understanding the Traditional Meaning of Boundaries Traditionally, boundaries are seen as lines we draw to protect ourselves. They can feel like walls, isolating us from our partners. But in a marriage, these walls can ...