Jul 13, 2018

Short Comments from Real Couples In Seroius Relationship | Never Judge A Book by It's Cover (First Impressions)...


" Very first policy of knowing me is: I DESPISE smoking cigarettes. Can't stand the smell of cigarettes, cannot stand the view of them, think that any individual that smokes is an idiot that deserves cancer cells, and also I detest the tobacco firms with every fiber of my being. So it was simply my good luck to fall in love first-sight with a beautiful blonde girl with a mouth like a truck driver and that smoked like a smokeshaft. I would certainly look at her beautiful face and also think, 'Yeah, but she smokes.' She 'd says the funniest thing ever and also I 'd believe, 'OK, but she smokes.' And then she kissed me and I thought, 'Well, then, I really don't care if she smokes.'".

-- Chris, 27.



" We were set up by my buddy on an arranged date. The first time I laid eyes on him I assumed he was cute, but I had this deep internal sigh of misery when I saw that he was about 2 inches much shorter than me. I realize that sounds superficial, yet the majority of ladies don't want a partner that's much shorter than they are. The only males that should be shorter than you -- are your grandpa and your sons. However I ought to have understood there's a massive distinction in between elevation and also size! His size more than offseted his elevation." (you know what I mean). :)

-- Mitzi, 26.



" I'm from the East Coastline, where the majority of us do not truly care if we obtain pasty as bagel dough during the winter as well as perhaps squeeze out a couple of feeble sunburns throughout the summer. So when I met the lady that is currently my spouse, it took me a bit of gettinging used to her Jersey Shore style sense. She would bake her skin like rotisserie hen at the regional tanning salon all winter long, and also she would wear this copper-colored lipstick as well as these insanely lengthy blinged-out fingernails, yet with my determination I came to know this woman who's as strong as a Mafia wife and who defends our two children like a goddamned mom wolverine. She could look a fake as she desires on the outside, because on the within, she's actual real to the bone.".

-- Dion, 29.



" OK, so she was covered from head to with all kids of tattoos, she had a lip piercing as well as a nose piercing, she definitely had no filter about speaking her mind in one of the most visuals and uneasy way possible, and also she asked if she can see my penis -- about 15 minutes right into our very first day-- while we were at a restaurant. I mean, they say do not judge a book by its cover, yet if she were a magazine, she would certainly be wrapped in brown paper in the back of a (adult xxx bookstore). However as the hours and also nights as well as weeks... as well as months-- And now currently three years-- unravelled, I came to know the most real, caring, understanding, valuable, credible individual I have actually ever before enjoyed. It truly taught me to never ever judge anyone by the way look.".

-- Todd, 28.



" I was instantly drawn into him due to the fact that he's simply attractive as heck, but because he was hot, I presumed he was as dumb as a tree stump. Typically men are either smart or hot, and seldom do you get both wrapped up in the exact same lovely slab of meat. However after our first month-long 'sex coma' diminished as well as we got to know one another, I understood that not only is he clever as hell, he's really very smart way beyond his years. I hit the Lotto with this man-- he's a male bimbo that's deep! Superficial and deep-- he covers the waterfront. Stay away, ladies, because I wiil attack you!"

-- Jazzie, 28



" We've been together for three years and also we're going to get married in the spring or 2018 despite the fact that when I met her-- I despised her guts and also believed she was a ridiculous clown. I think part of the issue is that I'm more of an introvert, as well as just what I initially saw as simply some loudmouthed scenester party girl was really a woman with incredible social intelligence who understood precisely ways to charm and also work people to get just what she wants from them. This would certainly prove to be a valuable possession in a companion, because I'm totally clueless when it comes to dealing with individuals. With my brains as well as her capability to hustle, we're unbeatable."

-- James, 26



" I met her online, and the very first thing you see are the images, and also wow, yep, no question, she was Angelina Jolie-level (lovely). We traded a few messages prior to exchanging phone numbers, when I initially spoke with her over the phone, she had this crackly white-girl mall-rat voice that made her sound so dumb, it immediately dashed all my hopes of us ever connecting, a lot less getting into a serious relationship. Her voice was so bad, I feared it may kill my erection if she attempted to open her mouth doing sex. Once we began talking, I realized she was not just my intellectual equivalent, she could even be my superior. She's so clever, she even understands the best ways to use her dumb-sounding voice to her benefit."

-- Jimmy, 32



" Oh, my God, speak about starting off on the wrong foot-- I met my boyfriend at a club where he was working the door, taking in the money and also working as a club bouncer. I confess I was a little sloshed when I walked up as well as presented myself and he kind of mumbled something back, and after that I yelled at him and stomped away since I assumed he was acting discourteous. Turns out he's only reluctant, and also a girlfriend told me a couple of days later on that he had a crush on me for months! He forgave me for being a full blown bitch to him, and I have never again been a total bitch to him once I got to know him. Okay I lied, I could be a partial bitch sometimes, however I'm never ever a full blown one any longer, at the very least not to him."

-- Ann, 31



" We are very different on national politics, which I figured would certainly be a deal breaker right out that gate! However he had a nuanced view about points that in fact opened my mind a little wider. I assumed he was simply some dumb member of the opposing 'group,' however he made me recognize there are more than 2 methods of checking out any given problem. Currently the only 'team' that matters is me and also him."

-- Denise, 22



" I had the misfortune of getting my 'impression' even before I met -- he has a track record in our social circle as a little bit of a player. A sweetheart, absolutely, and the kind of person that ladies simply toss themselves at, however someone that would certainly damage your heart in a minute just because he got tired or caught the aroma of some brand-new lady in the area. So when he asked me to be his 'Lady', I said yes, however I didn't tell him it would take me a long time to trust him. So I waited three months ... six months ... a year ... and currently it's 2 years, --And he hasn't given me one single sign that he betrayed me. He hasn't said one mean thing to me, and we never argue. Sometimes when you offer people a 2nd chance they treat you like a sucker; other times they prove themselves completely ethical."

-- Mary, 28



" My impression was, 'Wow, she's wise and amusing as well as hot -- And I can not believe she really likes me, yet she's a dozen years younger than I am --and also this is going to make me appear like a pervert.' Yet I dove in anyhow because the advantages plainly exceeded the small trouble of some individuals-- mostly envious guys and lonesome women-- believing I'm a pervert. Three years later, this pervert is engaged to her."

-- Bobby, 34



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Jul 12, 2018

10 Points What Females Find Very Unsightly in Men

1. Killer look.

Women don't like it when men take so much time to get dressed! Every person understands that girls are the ones that keep the man waiting for hours to dress, but they do not like it when their guys do it. When men are obsessed with a brand or when they care a lot regarding the way they look it makes the woman feel insecure.

2. Any type of interaction with opposite sex.

We utilized "ANY" and also we mean it! This can be a guy complimenting a lady, asking their lady to be like that other girl in terms of appearance, work with them, talk to them, be good friends with them, practically anything that another woman is involved in! Girls might often be irrationally jealous. That is because they appreciate you so much and also they really feel intimidated.

3. Skip showering.

What type of a normal individual prefer's to be with a smelly companion? Hygiene is one of the most essential points when it comes to being intimate with your significant other. Not only is shower essential, yet likewise your breath is of the exact same significance. And also NO; it is not appealing when they look unpleasant!

4. Act like a king.

Your lady wants to make you seem like you are the one in charge. Nevertheless, it is not cool when guys overdo it with the whole superior and inferior thing. The condescending mindset is exactly what a girl does not want in her life. All they want is to be loved and that's when they could love you back unconditionally.

5. A cad.

You do not wish to go out with a woman and not open the door for her!  Acting chivalrous shows how much you appreciate her and just how badly you want it to work out for you two. If your woman is strolling with numerous shopping bags in her hands, offer her a hand! Even if she is carrying just one bag -- you can always provide a hand!

6. You Can't take a joke.

Having to explain your jokes to the person just because he really did not get it is one of the most awkward as well as agitating thing that can take place when you are out with friends. The sense of humour is just what attracts the woman to the man! Of course, if they don't have that, it is most likely to be discouraging for them to continue the relationship!

7. Too Lazy.

Men without goals as well as nothing to do are extreme turn-offs. Nobody likes to see their partner asleep regularly. Playing video games regularly, staying at home, sleeping 3 times a day is not cool (for sure)! Rise up in the morning good to go -- as well as planning your day out around the house, yard work or whatever! You could even leave the house just for not being there. They won't care much. They wish to see you as a guy they could rely on, not like some one they have to baby.

8. Workaholics.

Having said all that about laziness, workaholics are not good either. No extremes! Whatever that diverts the interest from the girl is bothersome. Paying excessive focus on your job and also finances, or in other words, being consumed with money is just what destorys the relationship progressively. Look for a balance in between job and also your actual life.

9. Unclean nails.

Having stunning fingers is such a turn on for girls. However not always! Unclean finger nails can vanish the crush a girl has on you. Keep in mind how we spoke about hygiene as well as just how crucial that is to ladies? Filthy fingernails for whatever reason will leave the most awful impression --And you do not desire that (do you?). So prior to meeting up with your girl, make certain that your hands are tip-top clean!

10. High pitch voice.

People believe that males fall in love with what they see and also women fall for exactly what they listen to! Considering this, having a sonorous voice might be that one single thing that would make any kind of woman with whatever age group -- falls for you. Not having one is a deal breaker for real! Your woman doesn't intend to call you as well as feel like she is talking with one of her girlfriends!

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Jul 11, 2018

Five Mistakes Men Are Making in Bed?

Most men come to sex therapy to learn better technique. But, while it is important to know what she likes specifically, his sexual skill isn’t usually what’s causing the problem. If he’s making a mistake, it’s more likely to be one (or more) of the following:

1. Thinking that her lower desire means he’s unattractive. When a man sees a beautiful woman cross his path, he feels something – something in his body. His attraction stirs sensations in his genitals. The mere sight of his partner can cause a partial erection. But when a woman sees an attractive man, whether her partner or another, it would be very rare for her to feel instantaneous warmth or lubrication in her genitals. Rather, she’s notes intellectually that he is good-looking. Even with the enthusiastic exclamation, “He’s hot!” her genitals don’t signal her that it’s time to have sex. Male desire is rooted in his body; her desire springs from her memory, imagination, and fantasy. Good seduction helps her anticipate the moment and build the sexual fantasy.

2. Frustration with her slower ability to be aroused. The difference between men and women’s arousal paths is the difference between a gas grill and a charcoal grill. Women would love to instantly turn on but in most circumstances their physiology just won’t allow a quick warm up. And if she is aware of your frustration or disappointment, her self-consciousness will make her even slower to arouse. The remedy: take your time, enjoy the slow burn, and savor the tantalization.

3. Believing that good sex is about his performance. Men can ruin intimacy with their partner by worrying about their erections and how long they last. If a man struggles with erections, he may need to retreat into a bubble of concentration in order to climax; this mental focus may make him seem remote, isolated, and unattached. To reassure her and stay connected, whisper words about her – how desirable she is and how much you want her.If an erection is slow or wanes, welcome it as an interval to arouse her body. If premature ejaculation is the issue, tell her that you can’t control the fast climax because she is so sexy. And remember, oral sex can be an excellent substitute for intercourse.

4. Moving too quickly to genital touch. Once men understand how long it takes to arouse a woman, they want to get the process started. Since they like their genitals stimulated directly, they assume their partner would appreciate the same frankness. But without allowing her to prepare psychologically, the grab in the kitchen feels invasive, the reach under the covers to initiate is surprising, and the early stimulation doesn’t excite. Instead, spend some time kissing and massaging the whole body.

5. Stimulating her vagina instead of her clitoris. What she feels in her vagina is not the reverse of what he feels on his penis. Sensation in the penis is based on touch, whereas, in the vagina, feeling is created by stretch and pressure. For women, it’s the clitoris that parallels penile sensation (except, her anatomy is more delicate and sensitive). The clitoris, not the vagina, is the center of her sexual universe.

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Jul 10, 2018

11 Simple Things You Should Do and Not Do After Having S.E.X?

#1. Wash Up.

You don’t have to hop out of bed and into the shower right away. But gently cleaning yourself after sex can protect men and women from infections, like of the urinary tract (UTIs). Wash the area around (not inside) your genitals with plain warm water. You can try mild soaps, but if you have sensitive skin or you already have an infection, they might dry out or irritate the area. Men with foreskin should gently pull it back and wash underneath.

#2. Don’t Douche.

Some women think they need to clean inside their vagina after sex with water or prepackaged fluids. But douching can lead to more infections. That’s because it upsets the natural balance of bacteria that protect your vagina. The best way to take care of your vagina after sex is to leave it alone -- it cleans itself naturally. Also, keep in mind that a mild smell is normal and may not be a sign of a problem.

#3. Keep Clean-up Simple.

Along with douches, drug stores offer lots of wipes, creams, and sprays that claim to help you “freshen up” your personal areas. Some of them are made with harsh soaps, detergents, shampoos, perfumes, or lotions that can make your skin break out. Just stick to a gentle rinse with warm water after sex. And avoid scented tampons, pads, powders, and sprays, especially if you tend to get infections. 

#4. Empty Your Bladder.

During sex, bacteria can get into your urethra, the tube that carries urine out of your body. That can raise your chances of an infection. When you pee, you flush those germs out. So enjoy some cuddle time with your partner, then head to the bathroom. If you're a woman, when you wipe, do it from front to back to stop the spread of bacteria.

#5. Drink a Glass of Water.

Since it’s a good idea to pee after a roll in the hay, don’t forget to drink water. When you stay hydrated, you’ll pee more, which means that more bacteria will wash out of your body before infections can flare up.

#6. Wear Loose-Fitting Clothing.

Hot, sweaty places are the perfect spots for bacteria and yeast to thrive. So wear underwear and clothes that let air in. Women should avoid pantyhose, girdles, and panties that are too tight. Cotton undies work well for men and women -- they’re breathable and absorb moisture. Or skip underwear altogether when you go to bed.

#7. Wash Your Hands.

It’s the best way to get rid of bacteria you might pick up from touching your or your partner’s genitals. That’s key to stop infections from spreading. Wash with soap and water, and make it part of your post-sex clean-up routine.

#8. Clean Your Sex Toys.

After you’re done with them, bacteria, viruses, and fungi can hang around. That means your toys could spread STDs and other infections. Clean each toy after every use -- check the packaging for cleaning instructions. It’s better not to share toys with others -- that can send germs back and forth. If you do plan to share, try to cover the toy with a new condom each time you use it.

#9. Take Care of Any Yeast Infections.

Partners can pass these back and forth during sex. (Yes, guys get yeast infections, too.) So if you notice the symptoms -- itching, burning, or a thick, white discharge from the vagina or penis -- treat it before the next time you get busy. Talk to your doctor if you think you have one.

#10. Think About Getting Tested.

If you’re sexually active, especially if you’ve been with a new partner, it’s a good idea to get tested for STDs. Most of the time, these infections have no symptoms, so testing is the only way to know for sure if you have one. You can also watch for symptoms, like discharge, pain, blisters, sores, spots, or lumps around your genitals.

#11. Pregnant? Take Extra Care.

Sex is usually safe during pregnancy, but you are more likely to get infections like UTIs during this time. So it’s even more important to take care of the basics after sex -- pee afterward, wash around your vagina, and drink water. Encourage your partner to do the same.

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Jul 9, 2018

Strictly for the Ladies; Keeping S.E.X Interesting In the Bedroom

Overtime, your love life can tend to fizzle out unless you work at making sure that the spark stays. You can’t expect things to get better magically. It does take some work and that is something that a lot of women miss out on. You can’t expect things to get better without putting in the effort and without changing some things in your relationship.

If you are worried about your sex life being doomed for the rest of your life, you have no need to fear. You can work towards improving the relationship that you have with your man and you can ensure that he will remain happy with you for a long time to come. All you need to learn are some sex tips to drive him crazy.

It does take two to tango and you should both put in a sufficient amount of effort in order to improve your sex life, but don’t let your man carry the brunt of the weight. You should be putting in a valiant effort as well and you should want to bring on some of that change. It’s time that you did just that.

There are many things that you can do to your man in the bedroom that will spice up your sex life and here are a few suggestions for women of any sexual skill level:

Be the one to initiate sex. Chances are, it is usually up to your man to make the first move in the bedroom and to be the one who makes things happen. This gets awfully boring and repetitive to him and it also makes him feel like he isn’t desirable enough for you to want him. When he is the one putting in the effort, he feels like he isn’t good enough for you. Let him know that you do find him sexy and let him know that you want him. Make the first move.

Get a little kinky. Sex is fun and there are many things that make sex even more fun and more enjoyable. Sex toys are designed for a reason and they are out there for us to buy and to experiment with. Sometimes, spicing up your sex life is as simple as introducing something new and exciting into the bedroom. You can start off slow with a simple vibrator and then allow your inhibitions to be set free and start bringing in some naughtier things later on.

Your sex life and your well being in a sexual sense are both very vital to your relationship. Make sure that you are doing what needs to be done to keep your sex life on fire.

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Jul 8, 2018

Flirting Is So Important In Order to Have a Healthy Relationships

What is flirting? Are you good at it? Do you recognize it when someone is flirting with you? Is flirting harmful to relationships or good for them? Some people think that flirting is harmful, but I am here to tell you why flirting is important to relationships. Before we can talk about why flirting is important to relationships, however, we must first identify what flirting is.

Flirting is a form of communication that happens between two people that indicates the other is playfully interested in either getting to know the other one better or taking the relationship a little farther. Flirting can take many forms. Flirting can be the wink of an eye. Flirting can be a comment that can be both suggestive and innocent. Flirting can be a casual touch of the hand to the shoulder. Flirting can be a shy smile with down turned face and upturned eyes. Okay, so now that we all know what we are talking about, it is time to learn why flirting is important to relationships.

First of all, flirting is important to relationships early on; it is flirting that begins relationships.If no one ever flirts, no one ever knows that the other person is interested, and the relationship never gets started.

Flirting early on is also important because it makes you feel as if you are attractive. Nothing makes someone more attractive than feeling that others like the way they look. In other words, flirting builds confidence, and confidence makes the person even more attractive. It is a joyful game that makes people feel good and want to get to know you better; which is why flirting is important to relationships early on.

Later, flirting is important to relationships because it signals an intimate connection to your partner. Nothing makes a woman feel better than to know that she and her man have a lingering connection, and nothing can bring up that feeling in her quite like an innocent-but-more flirt from across the room at a crowded gathering. It is as if the whole world disappears for just a moment and there is nothing and no one but the two people involved.

Studies show that flirting is important to relationships even when the relationship has been ongoing for years; that is because it makes the couple feel good about themselves, their partner, and the relationship in general. Why is flirting important to relationships?

It keeps a little sizzle going and makes you feel great, sexy, and wanted. So the next time you are enduring a boring-but-necessary business event or sitting through your niece's graduation party or getting ready to go to the grocery store, remember why flirting is important to relationships and give your spouse or significant other a little pinch on the butt or a quick little wink of the eye. Trust me, it will work wonders and bring a little spice to your love life.

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