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Showing posts from September 25, 2011

In A Bad Relationship - Absolutely No one Deserves To Be Unhappy

If you are in a bad relationship the best thing you could do for yourself is get out of it as soon as you can. Absolutely no one deserves to be unhappy. I know you feel like you are all alone in the world but the first thing you need to understand is that you are not alone and there are people and resources you can tap into that can help you.

Use these resources to help you make a plan to get away. Ask family to help you store some things or give you a safe place to stay until you can get on your feet again. If you think you have enough time, try to save some money so you have a little to start you out. If you can't do this and have no family to help there are shelters that are available for you to take advantage of.

Leaving a bad relationship is scary but it will be the best thing you have ever done and will give you the confidence to get on with your life, especially if you have children to watch out for. Be strong and find the courage to walk out the door and do not look back.

Relationship Issues Advice - How to Identify The Stress Level

If you need some relationship issues advice, let's take a look at what the causes of your relationship distress may be. Problems in a relationship may start out as minor but if they do not get dealt with in a timely manner then someone's feelings may get hurt and they can balloon into a three headed monster and end up being the death of the relationship.

This does not have to be the case. In my opinion the three biggest relationship issues are:  Lack of communication, money, and not spending enough quality time together (if there are no children involved), or differences in how each of you thinks the children should be raised (if there are).

You have got to have a plan of action. Life and marriage just does not happen. You have to put some effort into it daily to keep it running smoothly. If the relationship is threatened in any way you need to nip-it-in-the- bud and talk it out with your partner or if that is not possible then go see someone who specializes in relationship co…

Are Your Relationships Needs Being Met?

You have a much better chance of having a long and happy relationship if your relationships needs are being met. One reason that many relationships don't work out is that the partners don't feel that their needs are being met. If you have broken up from your partner and managed to talk things through and get back together, then this is a particularly important time to have your needs met.

If you're partner doesn't know what your needs are then it will be difficult for them to meet your needs. Likewise, you should ask your partner what his needs are so you are better able to meet his needs. Neither of you are mind readers so this is something that you should sit down and talk about.

If you have never discussed your needs before you might be surprised at your partners needs. It is important to discuss needs as I'm sure you want to be happy together but that will be difficult if you don't know how to meet each others needs.

Different people have different n…

Relationship Edicate-Do You Have It?

We all strive for a relationship with other people, whether it be as friends, family, or lovers. Humans are social by nature and we generally do not like being alone. But there are some relationship edicate that we have to observe, otherwise our relationships may take a turn for the worst.

Generally a good rule of thumb is also the golden rule, do unto others as you would have done to you. Basically if you would not like being stood up on a date, or being lied to, it probably is a good idea not to do these things to others.

Always show respect for others, respect and trust are the foundation for a good, long lasting relationship. If you do not respect the other person, you will probably not treat them as they deserve to be treated. Since people do not like being mistreated or looked down on, your relationship most likely will not last.

If you do not trust the other person, this as well can lead to problems. Trust is paramount for a proper relationship since if you can not trust them, …

Terry's Relationship 'Rule' Advice For Women - Shop Around First!

If you need relationship advice for women you can find some of what you are looking for right here. Finding the right guy for you can be tough. Your best bet is to make a list of the attributes that you find appealing in a man and then, depending on how long the list is, take the top five attributes and concentrate on finding those in one man.

Steer clear of including physical characteristics in your first five attributes. Looks fade and it is shallow to date a man solely on his looks. Go for things like dependability and a good sense of humor.

Shop around, date several men before making any decisions. Every one is different and, who knows, you might find one that has a characteristic that you did not know you were looking for.

Maybe you will date someone who is loyal and dedicated to taking care of his mother. If he doesn't live with her then this could be an admirable trait in a man or it could mean that she is a manipulative you-know-what-I-mean and just feels the need to con…

Free Relationship Advice:Just Do A Little Research Can Help You Too!

When your relationship is on trouble, where do you turn? Well, you could go out and get a counselor or spend your money on books and e-courses to help you fix what is broken in your relationship or you can do a little research on the internet for free relationship advice.

Free relationship advice is out there, all you have to do is find it. Your best bet is to sign up to receive email newsletters. These come directly to your email either daily or weekly and can be invaluable when you are trying to figure things out about your relationship.

The information comes in the form of little tidbits and maybe even suggestions you can put into practice in your own relationship to try to make things better. Other free resources include articles, videos, talking to your pastor or someone who has been through what you are going through.

These resources will help you find solutions to your problems if your relationship just needs to be fine-tuned. If there is a bigger problem like infidelity then …