Skip to main content

Infidelity In A Relationship Will Destroy Trust: But It Can Be Salvaged

Nothing is more disheartening to a relationship than finding out that there has been infidelity. It can break your heart and can definitely knock the wind out of your sails. But, the good news is that cheating in a relationship can be overcome with time. Please take the time to focus on your relationship and try to work things out, in many cases you can. Don't give up.

One of the best things you can do is to take plenty of time to try to figure out what happened. Unless one of you is a chronic cheater, the cheating came from somewhere (not that this is an excuse) but to fix things you need to know what happened to create the situation in the first place.

If you or your partner has been going through some things and maybe that situation has put stress on your marriage or relationship than you may need to start there. But, I know I'm repeating myself but it's that important, that doesn't mean it was ok that either of you turned to another person to feel better about yourself. No matter what situations the two of you are dealing with, it doesn't make it ok to have an affair.

It's important to figure that out and fix the cause. You will also need to get help from a therapist. The hurt and anger that you can feel after someone has cheated can almost take on a life of it's own and it can be very difficult to work past it, especially on your own.

If the two of you understand that the process will take time and it will be painful yet you are still willing to do what needs to be done, than the two of you have a great chance of salvaging your relationship and maybe even making things better than they were before.

Of course, if one or the other of you has a long history of cheating than the problem runs much deeper than just some issue in your relationship. If either of you is like that than the best thing for you to do is for the "cheater" to get some serious counseling to figure out why they are so flawed that they think it's ok to do what they want to do no matter who they hurt and what promises you go back on.

Comments

It is hard to accept that your partner cheated on you. But if you want to save your relationship all you need to do is to accept and forget all, then move on.

relationships advice

Popular posts from this blog

Wife Abandonment Syndrome | When Thе husband Says He's Leaving You

Ten Hallmarks оf Wife Abandonment Syndrome 1. Prior tо thе separation, thе husband hаd ѕееmеd tо bе аn attentive, engaged spouse, looked uроn bу hіѕ wife аѕ honest аnd trustworthy. 2. Thе husband hаd nеvеr іndісаtеd thаt hе wаѕ unhappy іn thе marriage оr thinking оf leaving, аnd thе wife believed hеrѕеlf tо bе іn а secure relationship. 3. Bу thе time hе reveals hіѕ feelings tо hіѕ wife, thе еnd оf thе marriage іѕ аlrеаdу а fait accompli аnd thе husband moves оut quickly. 4. Thе husband typically blurts оut thе news thаt thе marriage іѕ оvеr "out-of-the-blue" іn thе middle оf а mundane domestic conversation. 5. Reasons gіvеn fоr hіѕ decision аrе nonsensical, exaggerated, trivial оr fraudulent. 6. Thе husband











Figure оut whаt hіѕ wife isn't dоіng right. Men nееd tо feel masculine. Mоѕt lіkеlу thе wife hаѕ emasculated hіm оvеr time, аnd thеrеfоrе hе іѕ nо longer attracted tо her. Thеrе аrе а lot оf articles аnd books оn whаt thіѕ means. Dо уоur homework tо find оut hоw tо mа…

Three Areas Pointing to the End of a Relationship

Every couple longs for eternity. Unfortunately, forever challenges all couples regardless of how they started, what they have survived and the best of intentions. Being able to spot when things are coming off the rails in a relationship will allow everyone to assess what needs to be done to salvage it and if they wish to invest the time.

Area One: Communication

Communication is held up as the best barometer for telling the status of a relationship. Part of this stems from how pervasive an aspect of the whole relationship communication turns out to be. So how can a couple tell if trouble is brewing in the arena of communication?

All Is Quiet: Long, uncomfortable silences charged with tension define the time spent together. This may occur because one of the pair feels no desire to expend the energy to engage in healthy communication.

Swimming in the Shallow End: When discussions happen, the topics remain light or non threatening. Short and unemotional answers replace detailed explanations …

When It's Time to Draw the Line In the Sand: Ways To Set Limits

In some cases you have to draw the line in the sand with those you love. You care deeply about them, but their habits is inappropriate and pressures your relationship to the point of breaking it. Though you may dread doing so, the time may have come to set clear limitations-- and maybe even a warning. To help you handle the scenario, think about the following guidelines:

Be clear exactly what your limits are. When you are calm, take some time to fully think through the situation. Decide which behaviors you want to accept, are willing to give time to change, or see as totally inappropriate if they occur again.

Be clear about the consequences of your loved one when violating your boundaries. There are some habits that call for discussion, while others need much stronger action. For example, you might be upset by your hubby watching porn online and feel the need to talk with him about it. By contrast, you might see chronic sexting with somebody besides you as cheating and a reason for divo…