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Healthy Relationship Advice; My 5 Easy Steps

When it comes to relationship advice, you have to be careful which you follow and which you ignore. Most everyone will have an opinion about the best way to go about getting back together with your ex, but not all those opinions are things you should do. In many cases, the advice you get can actually cause more harm than good and will encourage you to be manipulative and childish. Here is some relationship advice that can help you get your ex girlfriend/boy friend back in 5 easy steps - healthy relationship advice. In other words; good relationship advice.

Here are five easy steps that can help you reconcile with your girlfriend/boy friend in no time at all:

1. Take a look at your past mistakes, the ones that directly impacted your relationship as well as those that didn't (or at least you don't think they did). Pick a few of your personality traits that you feel you should work on and improve. Make a total commitment to investing time and effort into changing those things about yourself that you're not happy with. Not only can this, eventually, help you get your girl back or guy, it can also make you a better person in general.

2. Go out and be social. Don't spend all your time isolated in your home. On the other side of the coin, don't go out with other women or men. This is a mistake many men and women make, they want to make their ex jealous. The good news is that it usually works, your ex will probably be jealous. The bad news is that it won't help you one little bit if your goal is to get your ex back. She/he may be jealous but that doesn't mean she'll want you back. Go out, but don't hook up.

3. Take a trip and/ or do something unique and different. Explore not only the world, but yourself as well. Challenge yourself and try new things. Whether that means finding a better job or taking a class this is a great time to improve the person you are. That way when you do contact your ex she'll or he'll be impressed by the changes you've made and the interesting man you've become.

4. Take care of your physical appearance. This may mean joining a gym. Breakups are hard on you both emotionally and physically, it's important that you help keep your body strong and alleviate some stress. Working out on a regular basis can help you accomplish both of those things. It will also help make you look really hot for that time when you contact your ex.

5. Last but not least, you've let some time go by without talking to your ex, but more than likely she's been hearing from mutual friends about all the changes you've been making and all the cool new things you've been doing. Now is the time to contact her/him. It's very, very important that you keep things extremely casual. Remember, she's probably used to the two of you fighting and she/he may be hesitant to see you for fear that you'll just end up in a fight again. If you keep things very causal and friendly she/he will have time to learn to trust you and she/he will have a chance to see the new and improved you. In most cases that is all it takes for her/him to want to get back together with you.

If you are willing to follow these easy steps, be patient, and avoid all the stupid and unhealthy relationship games that so many people seem to like to play, you have a great chance to get your ex girlfriend back in 5 simple steps - healthy relationship advice. This is the only way that really makes sense. A relationship just can't last if it's based on childish, manipulative behavior.

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Sharon said…
Some good advice ...
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