How To Be A Challenge To Your Girlfriend And Put Zing In Your Romance

If you're wondering how to be a challenge to your girlfriend? Is it because you are afraid you are about to be dumped? Women often like their men to be a tough nut to crack. They seem to respect those men who are not afraid to live their life their way more than the man who agrees with everything they say. Sure they may complain their boyfriends aren't sentiment or in touch with their feelings but underneath they like it.

So how do you become a challenge? You can't take this too far or you will end up being dumped very quickly which I am guessing is not the result you are looking for. If you think your partner is taking you for granted, become a little less available. The next time she rings or texts to arrange last minute plans be unavailable. Have alternative arrangements in place even if it means you are washing your car. She will slowly get the message that you have a life and while she is important to you, your letting her know just because she calls - your not just going to stop what your doing at the drop of a hat!!!

If you are always the one to initiate nights out, try taking a back seat and see what happens. Will she organize things instead or give you an ear full. If you send her flowers every week, skip one and see what her reaction is. I am not suggesting you start ignoring the woman in your life but if you have been acting like a doormat it is time to change. It is nice for a man to pay for dinner on the first date but you shouldn't always have to pay particularly if you have similar incomes. If you earn less than her, she should definitely be paying her way some of the time too.

Arrange nights out with your own friends and go alone. Even people involved in a married relationship deserve a night out alone every so often. Your girlfriend may not like it but so long as you behave yourself why shouldn't you go without her.

You do not need to radically change your personality and become someone you are not. That will only make you uncomfortable. In answering how to be a challenge to your girlfriend, you are looking to make small changes to put the spice back into the relationship. If you always concentrate on her pleasure in the bedroom, start becoming a little more demanding. If you always initiate sex, take a back seat for a little while and let her worry about why you are not as eager as you once were.

Women do not like men behaving like puppies, all eager to please and bouncing around the place. It may be fun for a little while but most girls will eventually get bored with your behavior as it is too predictable. A new man will come along who offers them a challenge and they will dump you. If you love this woman, you need to learn the secrets of a successful relationship as soon as possible - otherwise you will be single again in a flash of an eye.



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